RELATIONSHIP ADVICE: PLease its long but i could really use some friendly advice!!?

Talk's CHEAP!!! No matter what a long distance relationship is always strained. It depends on how the 2 of you handle it also. If he is smoking the weed, blah, blahblah... it sounds as if he is a total pot head, wants his cake & eat it to. Keep doing what you are doing in school, take care of yourself & eventually he is probably going to be in trouble with the law.. put the pity act on you , then you will bail him out, then the down the road it will only get worse. I'm not saying that this will be this way, yet it could. They have their heads up their .... & that's the way they usually live & tell us any song & dance that we will listen to. Stay strong & be a leader & never let anyone drag you down in life. If you feel like you are being deceived, etc, then you probably are. There are many good people in life!!!